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Monday, January 7, 2008

人生无常,切记珍惜眼前人

这一句,这几天一直在我脑海里浮现。

还有 他 的笑声。

天下间唯一不变的 是身旁的至爱、至亲都会里我们而去。

别到最后,才恍然大悟没好好珍惜身边重要的人。。。

愿’哥哥‘在另一个国度里,安息吧。。。

5 comments:

Kelvin T said...

Hi Eelyn,

As I commented in several blogs, it is sad. But we have to think of his good, and remember his laughter and joy that he has given us.

And also everybody has to die. It's a matter of time. These days, it seem that healthy men can just die without warning, like "Death Note".

Anyway, dun be sad. He will want you to give your best in your job, even if you are under-rated. He did not get any awards, or any recognition, but he did his utmost in his job, and this is what we should learn from.

TaNaT DaMaN said...

The thing I will miss abt Jimmy Nah is his contagious laughter and humorous side. Life is just too fragile and unpredictable. You'll never know what's going to happen tomorrow. Life has to be treasured, and we should learn to love everyone around us as well as ourselves. May he rest in peace

Melvinlee said...

yeah we don't know what will happen tomorrow or later, it is unpredictable, so we dun have to be so sad:(, i hope he can rest in peace:)

jestellynn said...

rest in peace mc king..i believe that he had a life he had wanted and desired..

David said...

那时候,家伙们整天黏在一起的,也没时间去想什么快乐不快乐的。生活每天都照过。也许当时还真的挺快乐的呢。别人快乐,你就附和一下,你也会觉得快乐的。

日子久了,有时候还真不得不埋怨生活苦闷呀,就开始觉得这样下去很无聊。开始质疑自己到底在追求些什么。于是,家伙们每天变得特别敏感。一发现伙伴们的思想和自己略有不同,就急着要纠正。本意是不希望对方和自己在思想和沟通上背道而驰。谁知道不纠正倒还好,一纠正就要生彼此的气。

这样下去,都不知道大家要怎么相处。本来人的适应能力是很强的,为什么偏偏要搞到非彼既此呢。也许这个年代,大家都很独立,不需要别人照顾,但也不需要搞到形同陌路吧。

要说的还是一句老话:“珍惜眼前人”。有感情的时候,谁在你面前都还不是一样的。没有感情的时候,只怕世界第一在你面前也没有用。千万别无情无意的,要好的时候,就放大别人的优点;撕破脸皮时,就放大别人的缺点呀。

硬是要问为什么,也无法回答。只好说:“不为什么,只因为人必需要作出选择,只因为我们无法同时拥有全部”。

这里要提醒一下,人都是对立的统一的,不需要那么执着于身份地位吧。与其追求形式上的快乐,还不如摸清自己想要什么,还自己的人生自己的快乐。但是在看清楚以前,人都是迷糊的。无奈,除了无奈还是无奈。